Affair Quote by Andrew Solomon
“If you are married and you go off and have an affair with someone, if you are a husband who does that, it may potentially hurt your wife enormously. But it seems to me likely also to compromise your marriage. That seems to me to be a harm.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: The New Yorker, “The Art of Being a Good Husband,” 2015
Infidelity harms both the spouse and the marriage, creating deep emotional damage.
In simple terms: Affairs hurt wives and marriages.
Avoid betrayal to protect relationships.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- married life
- relationship counseling
- marital counseling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How would you address betrayal if it occurred?
- What steps can rebuild trust after an affair?
People may rationalize affairs, ignoring long-term harm.