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Affair Quote by Andrew Solomon

“If you are married and you go off and have an affair with someone, if you are a husband who does that, it may potentially hurt your wife enormously. But it seems to me likely also to compromise your marriage. That seems to me to be a harm.” quote by Andrew Solomon
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“If you are married and you go off and have an affair with someone, if you are a husband who does that, it may potentially hurt your wife enormously. But it seems to me likely also to compromise your marriage. That seems to me to be a harm.”

Andrew Solomon

About This Quote

Source Interview: The New Yorker, “The Art of Being a Good Husband,” 2015

Infidelity harms both the spouse and the marriage, creating deep emotional damage.

In simple terms: Affairs hurt wives and marriages.

Key Takeaway

Avoid betrayal to protect relationships.

Themes

marriage infidelity trust

Mood

sad reflective

Type

ethical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • married life
  • relationship counseling
  • marital counseling

Key Concepts

ethics emotional health

Questions to Reflect On

  • How would you address betrayal if it occurred?
  • What steps can rebuild trust after an affair?
A Different Perspective

People may rationalize affairs, ignoring long-term harm.

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