Buried Quote by Andre Dubus
“After the dead are buried, after the physical pain of grief has become a permanent wound in the soul, then comes the transcendent and common bond of human suffering, and with that comes forgiveness, and with forgiveness comes love.”
About This Quote
After grief settles into a lasting sorrow, shared human suffering creates a bond that leads to forgiveness, which then opens the heart to love.
In simple terms: Shared suffering breeds forgiveness, then love.
Forgiveness transforms pain into love.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- Families coping with loss
- Communities recovering from disaster
Key Concepts
Practical Applications
- Facilitate shared storytelling
- Encourage compassionate listening
Questions to Reflect On
- How does acknowledging shared pain foster forgiveness?
- Can love arise without first confronting grief?