Dreams Quote by André Aciman
““What is life without this? which was why, in the end, it was I, and not her, who blurted out, not once, but many, many times, You'll kill me if you stop, you'll kill me if you stop, because it was also my way of bringing full circle the dream and the fantasy, me and him, the longed-for words from mouth to mouth, which was when I must have begun using obscenities that he repeated after me, softly at first, till he said, "Call me by your name and I'll call you by my name," which I'd never done in my life before and which, as soon as I said my own name as though it were his, took me to a realm I never shared with anyone in my life before, or since.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Call Me By Your Name, André Aciman, 2007
Intense intimacy blurs boundaries, leading to shared identity and mutual transformation through repeated vulnerability.
In simple terms: Deep connection makes us share names and selves.
Key Takeaway
Embrace vulnerability to deepen relationships.
Themes
intimacy
identity
transformation
Mood
passionate
intense
Type
literary
romantic
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- artistic collaboration
- personal growth
- shared rituals
Key Concepts
self‑concept
emotional resonance
Questions to Reflect On
- What boundaries protect individuality in intimacy?
- How does repeated vulnerability affect trust?
A Different Perspective
Such merging can risk loss of self and dependency.
