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“Making wishes on the elephant is emotionally dangerous, because inevitably one's hopes rise abnormally high, unhealthily high, and when the wish does not come true, one's high hopes get crushed more painfully than if one had not asked for the help of supernatural powers. Therefore, one should…” quote by Amanda Filipacchi
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““Making wishes on the elephant is emotionally dangerous, because inevitably one's hopes rise abnormally high, unhealthily high, and when the wish does not come true, one's high hopes get crushed more painfully than if one had not asked for the help of supernatural powers. Therefore, one should always try to make the wish casually and forget about it instantly after making it, which is what I try to do now.””

Amanda Filipacchi

About This Quote

Source Novel: “The Unbearable Lightness of Being” (2005)

Wishes on magical beings raise unrealistic hopes, leading to painful disappointment; keep wishes casual and let go.

In simple terms: Making wishes on elephants creates high hopes that often break.

Key Takeaway

Make wishes lightly and release attachment.

Themes

wish‑making magical thinking disappointment detachment

Mood

cautious reflective

Type

advisory philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal aspirations
  • creative writing
  • spiritual practice

Key Concepts

psychology of hope fantasy vs reality

Questions to Reflect On

  • How to manage expectations in desire?
  • When is hope beneficial?
A Different Perspective

Avoiding wishes may limit ambition.

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