Child Quote by Alfie Kohn
“Most of us would protest that of course we love our children without any strings attached. But what counts is how things look from the perspective of the children”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Myth of the Spoiled Child, 1997
The quote challenges the idea that love is unconditional, arguing that true care must consider the child's perspective and needs, not just adult feelings.
In simple terms: Love should consider the child's viewpoint, not just adult emotions.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize the child's perspective in caregiving.
Themes
parenting
empathy
perspective
children
love
Mood
thoughtful
empathetic
instructive
Type
advice
reflective
philosophical
When to use this quote
- parent‑child relationships
- education
- policy making
Key Concepts
developmental psychology
ethics
communication
Questions to Reflect On
- How can adults better see from a child's view?
- What actions show love that respects a child's needs?
A Different Perspective
Focusing solely on adult feelings can neglect children's needs.
