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Feuds Quote by Alexander McCall Smith

“Great feuds often need very few words to resolve them. Disputes, even between nations, between peoples, can be set to rest with simple acts of contrition and corresponding forgiveness, can so often be shown to be based on nothing much other than pride and misunderstanding, and the forgetting of…” quote by Alexander McCall Smith
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““Great feuds often need very few words to resolve them. Disputes, even between nations, between peoples, can be set to rest with simple acts of contrition and corresponding forgiveness, can so often be shown to be based on nothing much other than pride and misunderstanding, and the forgetting of the humanity of the other—and””

Alexander McCall Smith

About This Quote

Source Book: The No. 1 Ladies' Detective Agency series, 1998–present

Resolving deep conflicts often requires minimal words but sincere gestures of apology and forgiveness, revealing that pride and misunderstanding fuel many disputes.

In simple terms: Simple acts of contrition and forgiveness can end big feuds.

Key Takeaway

Apologize and forgive to dissolve pride.

Themes

conflict resolution humility forgiveness

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family disputes
  • international negotiations
  • workplace conflicts
  • personal relationships

Key Concepts

pride misunderstanding humanity

Questions to Reflect On

  • What pride are you holding onto?
  • How can a small apology change a large conflict?
A Different Perspective

Success depends on genuine remorse, not just words.

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