Feminism Quote by Adelle Waldman
““He thought women were every bit as intelligent as men, every bit as capable of figuring out how long it would take for train A to crash into train B if the two were moving toward each other at an average speed of C. They were as capable of rational thought; they just didn’t appear to be as interested in it. They were happy to apply rational argument to defend what they already believed but unlikely to be swayed by it, not if it conflicted with inclination or, worse, intuition, not if it undercut a cherished opinion or nettled their self-esteem. So many times, when Nate had been arguing with a woman, a point was reached when it became clear that no argument would alter her thinking. Her position was one she “felt” to be true; it was, as a result, impermeable.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: “The Love Affairs of Nathaniel P.” by Adelle Waldman, 2013
Women can be as rational as men but may resist arguments that conflict with their emotions or identity.
In simple terms: Rational women may reject logic that threatens beliefs.
Key Takeaway
Recognize emotional factors in persuasion.
Themes
gender dynamics
logic
persuasion
identity
emotions
Mood
frustrated
thoughtful
analytical
Type
advice
observational
analytical
When to use this quote
- debates
- marketing pitches
- relationship discussions
- political discourse
Key Concepts
cognitive bias
motivated reasoning
social identity theory
Questions to Reflect On
- How do emotions shape acceptance of logical arguments?
- When should you appeal to values over facts?
A Different Perspective
Arguments alone may not change deeply held beliefs.
