Self Quotes by John de Ruiter

For you to have real love, you need to be able to move past your self.

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You cannot dwell in your being while your self inhabits your heart.

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The more that you bypass of your own mechanisms, the more in your self that will come apart.

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If you move as a being in every experience of your self, your being replaces your self.

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When you're true to your heart, you're infusing your self with meaning.

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For your self to become pure, give everything to what is already pure in you.

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The source of love isn’t in your self. It isn’t in your experience. It’s in you.

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The cure to your self is that you are not yours.

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As much as everything can seem to be about patterns in your self and others, within the drama of all that, it's…

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Looking and seeing do not originate in your self. You are able to look in your self because looking and seeing are…

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Your past determines your future unless you’re clearly moving past your self and responding to what you know in your heart.

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Everyone starts out with a little self, and it costs everything to move past that little self. It costs the life of…

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The known unseen within becomes structural in what is seen: a being functioning as a self, in person, in this world.

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Your self doesn't represent the truth in you, your being does. Give your ease only to what you know represents the truth…

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When your self and your life belong to your being, your self opens, your life opens, your being comes in, and it…

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When your heart softens and opens, your being becomes matter in your self. That is the change of matter and what matters…

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Your sexuality is the engine of your humanness. Freed of your self, it is an engine of movement. It isn’t there to…

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Your real strength within isn't the strength that you experience in your self. Your real strength within is in what you are…

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Where there's self importance, there's only a very little bit of you and that little bit is distorted. It's in a holding…

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When you are in the mundane from what is deeper than your self, you realize the mundane to be more than your…

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When you come from your heart in the midst of your self and in your life, you’ll be like a salmon turning…

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The more that you're knowing, the more you will be feeling and seeing, the more that you will hurt in your heart,…

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When you are free of your self in your heart, your labouring within your self is therapeutic to your self. It is…

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The new ground that you form in your living is a new self, a new self that isn't at all of the…

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When you rest in the weakness of your heart, your being moves and your self becomes quieted.

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The place of connection or separation in relationship to your own being, the place in your self where this occurs, is in…

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Your self is yours to integrate. To integrate your self you need to be, in the midst of your experience, a little…

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To really evolve as awareness, be just like your own being in a self like yours and on a planet like this…

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When you are gentled and quieted in your heart, you are incapable of relating to disappointment, incapable of feeling sorry for your…

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If you are all open in your heart, you are clean. If you are all open in your self, you are naive.

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While sincerity is to carry the weight of knowledge in the self, it is also to be the lightness of being clean.

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When you are unconditionally open and soft in your heart while your self empties and while your self fills, you live fulfilling…

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If you die of cancer with only openness and softness in your heart, you will live and die integrating your self.

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What you really are isn’t loyal to your self. It won’t favor your self. It will turn your self into what you…

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When you really love, that makes you feel unsure in your self, even though it is love that reaches your heart.

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For you to be free of your thinking mind, that will cost you the way that you've put your self together. It…

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You simply cannot trust or refer to your experience of your self to tell you what you are, to tell you the…

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What moves you, you move. That brings your sexuality into your being, through your heart, and that movement brings your being, through…

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When you, awareness, are mastered by the deepest that you know the truth of, then you are no longer awareness. You are…

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Your real home isn't your patterned self. It isn't your thinking. It isn't your feeling. Your real home is the deepest within…

— John de Ruiter