I think what women are doing to themselves is that they're seeing these different images of perfection - the perfect wife, the perfect mother, the perfect career person, the perfect movie star - and they're somehow thinking that they should… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
I think sometimes by portraying our lives as being too perfect, as being too balanced, we're actually selling younger women a bill of goods… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
I think what women are doing to themselves is that they're seeing these different images of perfection - the perfect wife, the perfect mother,… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
I think one thing that women can do is to just be more honest, with themselves and with their friends, and be more willing… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
I really don't see any men sitting in the corner office plotting to keep women out. All the men I know are actively trying to promote women, to get more women involved. These men have wives they care about; they have daughters they desperately care about. So I don't think it's fair to blame men - or I don't think… — Debora Spar Copy Share
We've reached the point where the demand for rules is about to replace the demand for chaos. — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
I certainly wouldn't go back and blame feminism, because all that feminism was really trying to do, which was huge, was to create a… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
It's oppressive. ... It's food, it's clothing, it's all the magazines that come under the heading of things looking simple. Men's magazines don't seem… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
They're coming out of high school exhausted. The pressure in high school is killing these kids. By the time they get to college, they… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
Feminism wasn’t supposed to make us miserable. It was supposed to make us free; to give women the power to shape their fortunes and… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
We must...forge partnerships with those around us, and begin to dismantle the myth of solitary perfection. — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
If two people have a couple of kids, somebody does have to take care of the kids. Somebody does have to cook dinner; somebody… — Debora Spar Copy Share Image
