I have to do this all the time - choosing what to print based on how it might come back to harm… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
Most of the time, people are not actually concerned with prostitution and sex work. They're concerned about seeing people who they think… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
Kristin Gwynne has been writing some great stuff about the sexually violent element of "stop-and-frisk." This isn't just "turn out your pockets."… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
Women in the past thought all they had to do was see if he comes home late, or smells like cigarettes. But… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
It makes me so angry when people say, "We never hear from people who are happy doing sex work." Well, that's because… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
In New Zealand, sex workers are regarded as workers, as people who are members of the community, people who have a stake… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
I've always been a writer. I started getting paid for writing in college. Where it transitioned from commentary to journalism was in… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
We hear from sex workers who have through their own volition become media figures, or have despite their own wishes become media… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
I respect people who come forward and speak, but I'm not asking most of the sex workers I interview now about their… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
What shocked me was three different anti-prostitution feminists asking me to justify that I had been a sex worker, to prove it.… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
Most people aren't encouraged to think of their labor as very valuable. We usually think of it as the necessary thing we… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
It's a misnomer to say you can criminalize one part of the transaction and not criminalize the entire transaction. For example in… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
Looking at the huge number of transgender women of color who have been murdered since the beginning of the year - that… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
Sex workers are the last women police stand in to protect. Sex workers are the last people that room is made for… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
We're missing a lot of the real-life stories of what people's work looks like. Those are the people that I want sitting… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
Even at legal brothels, sex workers have very little power and control over their workplace. They might have power with their customers… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
I think the anti-prostitution feminists need to do some consciousness-raising amongst themselves about their feelings. But that's a different political activity. Asking… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
We aren't defined by our work. People think if you over-identify with your work, then that must mean you're giving over too… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
Once when I told sex workers about my own sex work, it ended up building inappropriate trust with some people. But there… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
I've moved away from writing about and describing actual experiences of sex work, whether mine or anybody else's, because the culture is… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
Another sex worker and writer I respect put it this way: she said that as a writer, you're not about pleasing people,… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
It doesn't service anyone any to say, "This is a terrible violation in any circumstance always," because that robs us of our… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
I went to college in Amherst and lived in Northampton for many years and we had our quaint little feminist sex toy shop that… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
We hear from sex workers who have through their own volition become media figures, or have despite their own wishes become media figures. Like… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
One person was basically saying that feminists aren't interested in criminalizing prostitutes, that they don't want to do that. I responded that whether or… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
Our feelings alone don't change what happens with the police, what happens in jail, what happens when someone tries to go to the welfare… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
It's actually not much of a risk to say, "I don't think we should put sex workers in jail." That's a decent, normal thing… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
In the current situation with criminalization, we've created situations where sex workers have very little power and control over their lives. Increasing one group… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
Almost everything I've learned about journalism has been from other friends who are journalists, taking advantage of the money I hope they don't think… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
I remember being in high school in the '90s, and even then somehow hearing about the the Canadian Supreme Court's Butler decision which was… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
Kristin Gwynne has been writing some great stuff about the sexually violent element of "stop-and-frisk." This isn't just "turn out your pockets." This is… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
In New Zealand, sex workers are regarded as workers, as people who are members of the community, people who have a stake in the… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
Even at legal brothels, sex workers have very little power and control over their workplace. They might have power with their customers on a… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
I've moved away from writing about and describing actual experiences of sex work, whether mine or anybody else's, because the culture is obsessed with… — Melissa Gira Grant Copy Share Image
