If you don't ask for what you need, the need will keep getting bigger. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
All relationships have the same basic components: people, needs, and expectations. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Love is not all that is required in a relationship. It needs understanding, openness, kidness, patience, long-suffering — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Regardless of how hard, challenging, frightening, or difficult an experience may seem, everything is just as it needs to be in order… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Everything is just as it needs to be. And if we would forgive, our minds and hearts would open and we could… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When Oprah Winfrey tells you that you need to have your own show, you feel compelled to do it. Especially if she's… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Acknowledgemen t of what you feel, what you know, what you need is the first step toward healing. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
In order to feel loved, be respected and stay connected, we humans have a tendency to lie. We lie about who we… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
There are no guarantees in life, but it is a sure thing that you will get back what you give. If you… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Nothing destroys self-worth, self-acceptance and self-love faster than denying what you feel. Without feelings, you would not know where you are in… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
People have a right to change their minds and it has absolutely nothing to do with you. People change. As people change,… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
The ego encourages you to constantly prove yourself and what you already know. When you are in the presence of someone you… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We must learn not to give up when requirements are not met or when commitments are broken. To do so is a… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
I am not seeking anything but service to my creator. I do not need a house, I do not need a car,… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
And perhaps you thought, "Because I'm doing so much spiritual work, I'm only going to attract angels." No! The more spiritual work… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
There is nothing you need to do to make yourself more acceptable to God. You don't have to work harder, nor do… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Your job, work, life assignment must be the spark that fuels your fire. It must be a passion that you pursue. You… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Are you aware that your spirit needs to be fed? Did you know that your spirit would be delighted to partake in… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
If you want to run the show, God will let you. If you want to pull all the strings, that's up to… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When you really believe that you are worthy of the best, that you deserve the best & that there is enough of… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
When you need to be loved, you take love wherever you can find it. When you are desperate to be loved, feel… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Joy is what we are, not what we must get. Joy is the realization that all we want or need in life… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Fear wears so many clever disguises it is virtually impossible to always recognize it. Fear disguises itself as the need to be… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Right where you are is where you need to be. Don't fight it! Don't run away from it! Stand firm! Take a… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
We all want to be liked, loved, or needed. That is fine. What is not fine is what we are willing to… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Many of us have a need to be right. We then set out to make ourselves right by making someone else wrong.… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
How do you spell peace? P-R-A-Y-E-R! Anything you believe you need is available to you through prayer. We are not talking here… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Have the courage to speak your mind and tell the truth from a position of love rather than anger or fear, being… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
Everything happens when it needs to happen; everyone is always where they need to be. You will never miss out on what… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
A wound needs air in order to heal. We must talk about and expose those things which have hurt or harmed us… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share Image
For some reason,we keep forgetting some of our experience. We look back but don't bring the value forward. We bring the anger, the upset.… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
“Life would be so much easier if, when we hit a snag in a relationship, any relationship, we would stop, address it, and move… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
How do you spell peace? P-R-A-Y-E-R! Anything you believe you need is available to you through prayer. We are not talking here about a… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
We are distracted from our greatness because are greatness is what scares us. Right where you are…God is. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
Some children do what they’re told to do; some children do what they’re told not to do; all children do what they’re parents have… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
You can accept or reject the way you are treated by other people, but until you heal the wounds of your past, you will… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
We must each learn to feel comfortable in our own uniqueness by rising above the fear of being wrong and the aversion to being… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
I am not seeking anything but service to my creator. I do not need a house, I do not need a car, I do… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
The remedy for life's broken pieces is not classes, workshops or books. Don't try to heal the broken pieces. Just forgive. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
When someone entrusts their heart to you they are giving you a piece of their soul. You cannot treat the soul casually. You must… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
When you have something to do life will not allow you to ove foward until you do it. — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
Have you doubted your progress, regretted your choices, put yourself down? Remember that you are doing just fine. Remind yourself right now that no… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
The only relationship we can have in this life is the relationship we have with ourselves. We cannot love anybody more than we love… — Iyanla Vanzant Copy Share
