“I liked the idea of marking the place where a life ends as opposed to the place a corpse is buried. And… — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
Optimism is when you're not sure where life is going to take you, so naturally you anticipate the best possible outcome — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
“It was then that I began to write. Writing helps when you can't talk to your friends; it wasn't that my friends… — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
“Sometimes life is irreverent, and you accidentally discover you are a party to irreverence, and it's hard to know what to do.” — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
When you lose your parents as a child, you are indoctrinated into a club, you re taken into life's severest confidence. You… — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
“Kindness is everything . . . When you receive it and express it, it becomes the whole meaning of things. It's life,… — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
“...she acknowledged each person's nearness to the dead and helped the group in its struggle for order-who grieved most, whose pain was… — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
“Hell is only loneliness, a place without play for the soul, a place without God. How could there be God in loneliness when God… — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
“Having to talk to people was the one thing, but soliciting conversation was something else. If I acted squirmy or didn't make eye contact,… — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
“I shook my head. I couldn't remember the time before, or the way it used to be. There were things we used to do,… — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
“They were sorting, or classifying. It's easy-anyone dressed funny is the enemy, especially if they reject your supremacy or do not acknowledge school as… — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
“The families of graduating seniors emptied out of cars, sheepish in uncommon splendor, like milling clans at the origin of a parade. There is… — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
And loneliness. I should say something of loneliness. The panic, the sweeping hysteria that comes not when you are without others, but when you… — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
“My mother refuses to go into the ocean. She respects it, she says, which is basically the same as saying she's afraid. I go… — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
“The unusual thing about quiet is that when you seek it, it is almost impossible to achieve. When you strive for quiet, you become… — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
“I liked the idea of marking the place where a life ends as opposed to the place a corpse is buried. And also the… — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
“My hand reaches for his eye. He does not pull away but breathes into my touch. His normal lid drifts closed, and beneath my… — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
“Envy is awful. Unlike jealousy, which comes from the threat of losing what you cherish, envy is a dark desire for things over which… — Hilary Thayer Hamann Copy Share Image
