“Encouragement is the most effective way to change someone’s behavior. When you see the best in them you encourage them to become that and they will want to live up to your high opinion of them.” — Kimberly Giles Copy Share Image
“It is important you understand how fear affects you and how it drives human behavior so you can start to see situations and people accurately and respond more appropriately. When someone is behaving badly, attacking you, or being defensive, critical, or judgmental, it is not really about you. Fear is the real reason people behave badly. Their fears make them… — Kimberly Giles Copy Share
“I say this because all religions, accurately understood, will take away your fear of not being enough. I believe there is a way to understand the tenets of your religion, right now, that will take away your fear and make you feel loved and safe. The problem is that no matter what you believe or to which religion you belong,… — Kimberly Giles Copy Share
“You are a divine, irreplaceable, one-of-a-kind soul, and there is no other achievement, title, or role that is more meaningful than that. Your qualities… — Kimberly Giles Copy Share Image
“Be a good person, do good things, learn, and love other people, but do these things because you love yourself, God, life and people, not because you fear going to hell if you don’t. Keep the commandments (or whatever tenets you believe) because you want to be happy. Do it for you. God and the universe will unconditionally love you… — Kimberly Giles Copy Share
“I believe the higher power in the universe is compassionate, understanding, and all-knowing, and that there is nothing you can do that will change His love for you. I believe God’s love for you is infinite and absolute, and your value as an irreplaceable, unique, one-of-a-kind, divine soul is infinite and absolute too, because it is based in God’s love… — Kimberly Giles Copy Share
“You have probably worked your entire life to create a sense of identity around your job, your family, your hobbies, or your physical characteristics. But none of these is who you really are. You are not what you look like. You are not your family. You are not your job, income, or performance. You are not your current situation or… — Kimberly Giles Copy Share
“When you experience the clarity that comes when you choose trust and love, you can see other people accurately – as the same as you.” — Kimberly Giles Copy Share Image
“Remember every mistreatment experience shows up to give you the opportunity to learn love at a deeper level. You don’t need to defend yourself because you cannot be diminished. You must understand that defensiveness doesn't protect you. It actually makes you feel more vulnerable and unsafe. In protecting yourself you are embracing the idea that you can be hurt and… — Kimberly Giles Copy Share
“Fear causes problems in your life because it fogs the lens through which you see yourself and your world.” — Kimberly Giles Copy Share Image
“The universe will never force a mindset on you. You have complete free agency to choose fear and suffer unnecessarily if you want to.” — Kimberly Giles Copy Share Image
“Every day is a grand adventure into the great unknown and you cannot know what lies around the next corner. So, standing in this place, with the unknown before you, you have only two choices: you can live in trust (believing you are safe and that good things are coming) or you can live in fear (scared of the future… — Kimberly Giles Copy Share
“The purpose and point of this life is to learn and love – and it may be more specifically to learn to love.” — Kimberly Giles Copy Share Image
