Lies Quote by A.S. Byatt
““But I cannot love her as I did, because she is not open, because she withholds what matters, because she makes me, with her pride or her madness, live a lie.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Possession, A.S. Byatt, 1990
The speaker feels love is impossible because the beloved hides essential truth and is driven by pride or madness, creating a false relationship.
In simple terms: Love is blocked by secrecy and pride.
Seek honesty or let go.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- friendship
- family dynamics
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Can you love someone who hides their true self?
- How does pride affect intimacy?
If the beloved opens up, love may revive.