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“Then she saw him stop and wipe his brow with his handkerchief. Once, twice. And then once again. But she did not see the grin of relief spread over his face. That she did not see because her eyes had filled with tears. And the geraniums, they were just as sad. In any case, that's how they smelled.” quote by Wolfgang Borchert
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““Then she saw him stop and wipe his brow with his handkerchief. Once, twice. And then once again. But she did not see the grin of relief spread over his face. That she did not see because her eyes had filled with tears. And the geraniums, they were just as sad. In any case, that's how they smelled.””

Wolfgang Borchert

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Unseen relief can be hidden by personal sorrow; we may miss others' comfort while we are grieving.

In simple terms: Grief blinds us to others' relief.

Key Takeaway

Notice others' relief despite your own tears.

Themes

empathy perception grief

Mood

melancholic thoughtful

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • reading groups
  • counseling
  • supportive conversations
  • art therapy

Key Concepts

literature human experience emotional blindness

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does your grief affect perception of others?
  • What can you do to notice relief around you?
A Different Perspective

One may argue that focusing on others' relief can distract from processing personal grief.

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