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“The game, in fact, and the glory, such as it is, is all his, and the punishment alone falls upon her. Consider this, ladies, when charming young gentlemen come to woo you with soft speeches. You have nothing to win, except wretchedness, and scorn, and desertion. Consider this, and be thankful to…” quote by William Makepeace Thackeray
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““The game, in fact, and the glory, such as it is, is all his, and the punishment alone falls upon her. Consider this, ladies, when charming young gentlemen come to woo you with soft speeches. You have nothing to win, except wretchedness, and scorn, and desertion. Consider this, and be thankful to your Solomons for telling it.””

William Makepeace Thackeray

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The quote warns women that romantic overtures often benefit men while women bear the emotional costs and potential rejection.

In simple terms: Women risk pain and loss when trusting flattering suitors.

Key Takeaway

Beware of empty promises and protect your heart.

Themes

gender dynamics romantic deception power imbalance

Mood

cautious reflective

Type

advice warning

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • marriage negotiations
  • social gatherings
  • online dating

Key Concepts

courtship social expectations emotional labor

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you recognize signs of manipulation?
  • How can you set boundaries in courtship?
A Different Perspective

It assumes all men are exploitative, ignoring genuine affection.

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