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“The little that he had said, thus far, had been sufficient to convince me that I was speaking to a gentleman. He had what I may venture to describe as the unsought self-possession, which is a sure sign of good breeding, not in England only, but everywhere else in the civilized world.” quote by Wilkie Collins
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““The little that he had said, thus far, had been sufficient to convince me that I was speaking to a gentleman. He had what I may venture to describe as the unsought self-possession, which is a sure sign of good breeding, not in England only, but everywhere else in the civilized world.””

Wilkie Collins

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker judges a man by his modest speech and calm demeanor, seeing these as marks of refined upbringing.

In simple terms: Polite speech and calmness signal good breeding.

Key Takeaway

Value quiet confidence.

Themes

manners social perception class communication

Mood

respectful analytical

Type

observational literary

When to use this quote

  • First impressions
  • social gatherings
  • business meetings
  • diplomatic negotiations

Key Concepts

Gentlemanly conduct self-possession cultural norms

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do we assess character beyond words?
  • Can calmness be misread?
A Different Perspective

Assumes speech alone reveals character; may overlook deeper traits.

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