I have never cataloged what I would want in a marriage. I…
““I have never cataloged what I would want in a marriage. I might as well do it now... I want an arrangement in which love and passion mingle and last. I want a rock to lean against. I want sex to pierce reality and come blazing out the other side. I want to feel that someone has my back. I want it to be us against the world. I want marriage to be cool. I want the words wife and husband to resonate with joy. I want our intimacy to be inviolate. I want it all under one roof. I want the institution to deserve my energy and my commitment and the last decades of my life.I want what Jane Cooper called "A radiance of attention/Like the candle's flame when we eat." I want to wake up next to a person who feels what I feel - that there is a constant, self-renewing joy in being with the other.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
A desire for a marriage that blends love, passion, support, and shared purpose into a vibrant, enduring partnership.
In simple terms: Seeking a deep, joyful partnership.
Key Takeaway
Marriage as a dynamic, supportive union.
Themes
love
partnership
intimacy
commitment
joy
Mood
hopeful
intimate
aspirational
Type
personal reflection
relationship manifesto
When to use this quote
- long‑term relationship planning
- marriage counseling
- partner selection
Key Concepts
emotional fulfillment
shared purpose
mutual support
Practical Applications
- relationship coaching
- marriage enrichment workshops
Questions to Reflect On
- What does a 'rock to lean against' look like in daily life?
- How can couples sustain self‑renewing joy?