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“I honestly believe that the counsel I gave Curt was mainly sound, and I don't think too much of it was holier-than-thou. I tried to give him a code to live by. He wanted not one scrap of it, he didn't agree with a single value that I held.” quote by Wallace Stegner
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““I honestly believe that the counsel I gave Curt was mainly sound, and I don't think too much of it was holier-than-thou. I tried to give him a code to live by. He wanted not one scrap of it, he didn't agree with a single value that I held.””

Wallace Stegner

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Advice based on personal values may be rejected if it clashes with another’s beliefs; humility is needed.

In simple terms: Advice can fail if values don’t align.

Key Takeaway

Listen before prescribing values.

Themes

communication values mentorship humility conflict

Mood

thoughtful empathetic

Type

reflective inspirational

When to use this quote

  • counseling sessions
  • team leadership
  • parenting
  • peer mentoring

Key Concepts

ethical philosophy personal growth interpersonal dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you respect differing values?
  • What alternative support can you offer?
A Different Perspective

May seem dismissive of the other’s perspective.

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