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“I have always hesitated to give advice, for how can one advise another how to act unless one knows that other as well as one knows himself? Heaven knows. I know little enough of myself: I know nothing of others. We can only guess at the thoughts and emotions of our neighbours. Each one of us is a…” quote by W. Somerset Maugham
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““I have always hesitated to give advice, for how can one advise another how to act unless one knows that other as well as one knows himself? Heaven knows. I know little enough of myself: I know nothing of others. We can only guess at the thoughts and emotions of our neighbours. Each one of us is a prisoner in a solitary tower and he communicates with the other prisoners, who form mankind, by conventional signs that have not quite the same meaning for them as for himself.””

W. Somerset Maugham

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Understanding others is limited; true insight into another's mind requires self‑knowledge and empathy, which are often lacking.

In simple terms: We can’t truly know others without knowing ourselves.

Key Takeaway

Seek self‑awareness before judging.

Themes

communication empathy solitude misunderstanding

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical observational

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • therapy
  • teamwork
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

self‑knowledge theory of mind existential isolation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you improve self‑knowledge?
  • What signs reveal hidden meanings in conversation?
A Different Perspective

Human perception is filtered, so misinterpretations are inevitable.

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