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shook hands very cordially; and yet I always feel him…

“shook hands very cordially; and yet I always feel him shrinking sensitively from me, as a woman, a clever woman, an up to date woman. Feeling this I commanded him to read Defoe, and left him, and went and got some more Defoe, having bought one volume at Bickers on the” quote by Virginia Woolf
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““shook hands very cordially; and yet I always feel him shrinking sensitively from me, as a woman, a clever woman, an up to date woman. Feeling this I commanded him to read Defoe, and left him, and went and got some more Defoe, having bought one volume at Bickers on the””

Virginia Woolf

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The narrator observes a man's uneasy reaction to a confident, modern woman, prompting her to assert intellectual dominance through literature.

In simple terms: A man recoils from a self-assured woman; she counters by offering him a book.

Key Takeaway

Use knowledge to challenge social discomfort.

Themes

gender dynamics social perception literature confidence

Mood

reflective analytical

Type

observational critical

When to use this quote

  • social gatherings
  • professional settings
  • personal relationships
  • educational encounters

Key Concepts

feminism psychology power relations

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you respond when someone feels threatened by your confidence?
  • What role does literature play in navigating social tension?
A Different Perspective

The reaction may stem from deeper insecurities, not just gender bias.

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