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“If you insist upon fighting to protect me, or 'our' country, let it be understood soberly and rationally between us that you are fighting to gratify a sex instinct which I cannot share; to procure benefits where I have not shared and probably will not share.” quote by Virginia Woolf
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“If you insist upon fighting to protect me, or 'our' country, let it be understood soberly and rationally between us that you are fighting to gratify a sex instinct which I cannot share; to procure benefits where I have not shared and probably will not share.”

Virginia Woolf

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker rejects being used for sexual or selfish motives, insisting that any fight is driven by a personal, non‑shared desire for gratification.

In simple terms: Reject being used for sex or gain.

Key Takeaway

Demand respect and honesty.

Themes

gender power relationships

Mood

defiant reflective

Type

philosophical critical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • political activism
  • workplace dynamics

Key Concepts

sexual instinct self‑interest ethical boundaries

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you ever feel used for others' desires?
  • How can you set clear boundaries?
A Different Perspective

It may overlook genuine altruistic motives.

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