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“How much she wanted it - that people should look pleased as she came in, Clarissa thought and turned and walked back towards Bond Street, annoyed, because it was silly to have other reasons for doing things. Much rather would she have been one of those people like Richard who did things for…” quote by Virginia Woolf
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““How much she wanted it - that people should look pleased as she came in, Clarissa thought and turned and walked back towards Bond Street, annoyed, because it was silly to have other reasons for doing things. Much rather would she have been one of those people like Richard who did things for themselves, whereas, she thought, waiting to cross, half the time she did things not simply, not for themselves; but to make people think this or that; perfect idiocy she knew (and now the policeman held up his hand) for no one was ever for a second taken in.””

Virginia Woolf

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

She reflects on acting for others’ approval versus authentic self‑motivation, seeing the former as foolish.

In simple terms: She prefers acting for herself, not to impress others.

Key Takeaway

Choose authenticity over seeking approval.

Themes

authenticity self‑image social pressure self‑motivation

Mood

reflective introspective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • social gatherings
  • career decisions
  • personal relationships
  • creative work

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology identity conformity

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you act for yourself or for others?
  • What would change if you stopped seeking approval?
A Different Perspective

Authentic actions may still be judged, causing inner conflict.

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