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“Clarissa had a theory in those days - they had heaps of theories, always theories, as young people have. It was to explain the feeling they had of dissatisfaction; not knowing people; not being known. For how could they know each other? You met every day; then not for six months, or years. It was…” quote by Virginia Woolf
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““Clarissa had a theory in those days - they had heaps of theories, always theories, as young people have. It was to explain the feeling they had of dissatisfaction; not knowing people; not being known. For how could they know each other? You met every day; then not for six months, or years. It was unsatisfactory, they agreed, how little one knew people. But she said, sitting on the bus going up Shaftesbury Avenue, she felt herself everywhere; not 'here, here, here'; and she tapped the back of the seat; but everywhere. She waved her hand, going up Shaftesbury Avenue. She was all that. So that to know her, or any one, one must seek out the people who completed them; even the places. Odd affinities she had with people she had never spoke to, some women in the street, some man behind a counter - even trees, or barns. It ended in a transcendental theory which, with her horror of death, allowed her to believe, or say that she believed (for all her scepticism), that since our apparitions, the part of us which appears, are so momentary compared with the other, the unseen part of us, which spreads wide, the unseen might survive, be recovered somehow attached to this person or that, or even haunting certain places, after death. Perhaps - perhaps.””

Virginia Woolf

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

People seek connections through others and places, believing that shared experiences and unseen bonds persist beyond death.

In simple terms: We find meaning in relationships and lingering presence.

Key Takeaway

Seek deep connections and recognize lasting influences.

Themes

existence relationships memory transcendence

Mood

reflective melancholy

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • friendship
  • family
  • urban life
  • grief counseling

Key Concepts

Phenomenology interconnectedness

Questions to Reflect On

  • What unseen ties shape your life?
  • How do you honor those who have passed?
A Different Perspective

May idealize connections beyond reality.

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