Let me begin by telling you that I was in love. An…
““Let me begin by telling you that I was in love. An ordinary statement, to be sure, but not an ordinary fact, for so few of us learn that love is tenderness, and tenderness is not, as a fair proportian suspect, pity; and still fewer know that happiness in love is not the absolute focusing of all emotion in another: one has always to love a good many things which the beloved must come only to symbolize; the true beloveds of this world are in their lovers's eyes lilacs opening, ship lights, school bells, a landscape, remembered conversations, friends, a child's Sunday, lost voices, one's favourite suit, autumn and all seasons, memory, yes, it being the earth and water of existence, memory.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Love is a complex tapestry of tenderness, memory, and everyday symbols, not just romantic focus.
In simple terms: Love includes many small, ordinary moments.
Cherish everyday details that symbolize love.
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When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- creative writing
- mindfulness practice
- artistic expression
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What ordinary moments make you feel loved?
- How can you express love through everyday symbols?
Focusing only on grand gestures can miss subtle love.