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Theirs was that substantial affection which arises (if any…

“Theirs was that substantial affection which arises (if any arises at all) when the two who are thrown together begin first by knowing the rougher sides of each other’s character, and not the best till further on, the romance growing up in the interstices of a mass of hard prosaic reality.” quote by Thomas Hardy
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““Theirs was that substantial affection which arises (if any arises at all) when the two who are thrown together begin first by knowing the rougher sides of each other’s character, and not the best till further on, the romance growing up in the interstices of a mass of hard prosaic reality.””

Thomas Hardy

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Romance deepens after partners first see each other's flaws, not just idealized traits.

In simple terms: Love grows from realistic understanding.

Key Takeaway

Embrace imperfections early.

Themes

love relationships growth

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

literary romantic

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • long‑term partnership
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

character flaws romantic development

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance honesty with kindness?
  • What flaws have you accepted in a partner?
A Different Perspective

Idealizing partners can delay genuine connection.

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