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“So the HP guy comes up to me (at the Melbourne conference) and he says, 'If you say nasty things like that to vendors you're not going to get anything'. I said, 'No, in eight years of saying nothing, we've got nothing, and I'm going to start saying nasty things, in the hope that some of these…” quote by Theo de Raadt
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“So the HP guy comes up to me (at the Melbourne conference) and he says, 'If you say nasty things like that to vendors you're not going to get anything'. I said, 'No, in eight years of saying nothing, we've got nothing, and I'm going to start saying nasty things, in the hope that some of these vendors will start giving me money so I'll shut up'.”

Theo de Raadt

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This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Aggressive negotiation tactics can backfire, leading to loss of goodwill and future opportunities.

In simple terms: Being harsh with vendors can hurt relationships.

Key Takeaway

Choose respectful communication.

Themes

negotiation ethics relationships

Mood

cautionary reflective

Type

business ethical

When to use this quote

  • business deals
  • vendor management
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

professional conduct trust building

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is firmness appropriate?
  • How to balance assertiveness and respect?
A Different Perspective

Harshness may yield short-term gains but long-term loss.

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