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“In psychologist Robert Sternberg's triangular theory of love, he identifies three characteristics: passion, intimacy, and commitment. Passion is defined as physical attraction and sexual connection, intimacy as the sense of being close and bonded, and commitment as the decision to be together…” quote by Susan Shapiro Barash
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““In psychologist Robert Sternberg's triangular theory of love, he identifies three characteristics: passion, intimacy, and commitment. Passion is defined as physical attraction and sexual connection, intimacy as the sense of being close and bonded, and commitment as the decision to be together exclusively. As a romantic relationship moves through time, one of these three characteristics is carrying the most weight. Accordingly, although romantic love offers both intimacy and passion/sex, commitment is needed to complete the triangle.””

Susan Shapiro Barash

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This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love evolves; initially passion and intimacy dominate, but lasting relationships rely on commitment to sustain the bond.

In simple terms: Commitment is essential for lasting love.

Key Takeaway

Prioritize commitment for enduring relationships.

Themes

love relationships commitment psychology triangular theory

Mood

reflective analytical

Type

philosophical educational

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • marriage counseling
  • long‑term partnership
  • relationship education

Key Concepts

attachment theory relationship development triangular theory of love

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can couples nurture commitment without losing passion?
  • What role does intimacy play after commitment is established?
A Different Perspective

Commitment alone may not resolve underlying incompatibilities.

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