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“Thank you,’ I answered, unsure of the proper American response to her gracious enthusiasm. In the Arab world, gratitude is a language unto itself. “May Allah bless the hands that give me this gift”; “Beauty is in the eyes that find me pretty”; “May Allah never deny your prayer”; and so on, an…” quote by Susan Abulhawa
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““Thank you,’ I answered, unsure of the proper American response to her gracious enthusiasm. In the Arab world, gratitude is a language unto itself. “May Allah bless the hands that give me this gift”; “Beauty is in the eyes that find me pretty”; “May Allah never deny your prayer”; and so on, an infinite string of prayerful appreciation. Coming from such a culture, I have always found a mere “thank you” an insufficient expression that makes my voice sound miserly and ungrateful.” (169).””

Susan Abulhawa

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker feels that a simple “thank you” cannot convey the depth of gratitude expressed in Arabic culture, where thanks are often framed as prayers and blessings.

In simple terms: Simple thanks feel insufficient compared to elaborate prayers.

Key Takeaway

Express gratitude in a way that respects cultural depth.

Themes

cultural nuance communication gratitude

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

cultural philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal interactions
  • cross‑cultural meetings
  • writing thank‑you notes
  • public speeches

Key Concepts

intercultural communication language of gratitude social norms

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you adapt gratitude expressions across cultures?
  • What does “thank you” mean to you personally?
A Different Perspective

May be perceived as overly formal or insincere in cultures valuing brevity.

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