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Sarah shifted on the bench. I worried she was winding up…

“Sarah shifted on the bench. I worried she was winding up to say something, that Sky would start humming now, that the fright spring-coiled inside me would break loose. Then I remembered the widow dress I was wearing. I made a sound with my lips like I was trying to give him an answer, but choking…” quote by Sue Monk Kidd
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““Sarah shifted on the bench. I worried she was winding up to say something, that Sky would start humming now, that the fright spring-coiled inside me would break loose. Then I remembered the widow dress I was wearing. I made a sound with my lips like I was trying to give him an answer, but choking on the words, seized by my grief, and I didn't have to pretend that much. I felt sorrow for my life, for what I'd lived and seen and known, for what was lost to me, and the weeping turned real.””

Sue Monk Kidd

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A narrator confronts grief and the weight of past experiences, realizing authenticity over pretense.

In simple terms: Grief forces honest self‑expression.

Key Takeaway

Embrace genuine feeling.

Themes

grief authenticity memory

Mood

somber reflective

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • personal loss
  • writing
  • public speaking

Key Concepts

self‑reflection emotional honesty

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does authenticity change your coping?
  • What memories surface when grief appears?
A Different Perspective

May be overly introspective for some readers.

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