To parents who find a child's disclosure about sexual or…
“To parents who find a child's disclosure about sexual or gender identity challenging, I always urge what I'd call "moderated" honesty. If you can't say "I love you," then say something like, "I'm going to need some time to digest this news." Buy time this way. And then think.”
About This Quote
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Encourage honest yet measured responses when a child shares gender or sexual identity, allowing time to process before fully engaging.
In simple terms: Give honest but measured replies, buying time to think.
Respond honestly, but give yourself space to process.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family discussions
- counseling sessions
- support groups
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you balance honesty with emotional safety?
- What strategies help you process difficult news?
May delay emotional support for the child.