Never before in history had societies thought that such a…
““Never before in history had societies thought that such a set of high expectations about marriage was either realistic or desirable. Although many Europeans and Americans found tremendous joy in building their relationships around these values, the adoption of these unprecedented goals for marriage had unanticipated and revolutionary consequences that have since come to threaten the stability of the entire institution.””
About This Quote
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High marital expectations reshaped marriage, causing unintended instability.
In simple terms: Unrealistic expectations destabilize marriage.
Reevaluate marital expectations.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- educational programs
- policy discussion
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What expectations are harmful?
- How can couples set realistic goals?
Idealizing marriage may ignore individual needs.