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What kind of power is it that dares intrude between me and…

“What kind of power is it that dares intrude between me and my bride, the bride I myself have chosen and who has chosen me? And this power would command her to be true to me; does she then need to be so commanded? And is she to be true to me only because a third party commands it, one whom she…” quote by Soren Kierkegaard
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“What kind of power is it that dares intrude between me and my bride, the bride I myself have chosen and who has chosen me? And this power would command her to be true to me; does she then need to be so commanded? And is she to be true to me only because a third party commands it, one whom she therefore loves more than me?”

Soren Kierkegaard

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The quote questions whether love should be based on external authority or genuine mutual choice, challenging the morality of imposing love through third‑party commands.

In simple terms: Love should be chosen freely, not forced by others.

Key Takeaway

Seek authentic, consensual love.

Themes

love autonomy choice ethics relationships

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

philosophical ethical

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • relationship discussions
  • ethical debates
  • personal introspection

Key Concepts

Existentialism moral philosophy free will

Questions to Reflect On

  • Is love more authentic when unforced?
  • How do societal expectations shape our relationships?
A Different Perspective

External pressures can complicate genuine affection.

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