Someone wrote to me asking me to illustrate a missed…
“Someone wrote to me asking me to illustrate a missed connection that "hasn't happened yet." This guy has seen the same girl waiting at a bus stop on his morning commute for weeks, and has been trying to find a way to approach her. He thought it would be fun to put up a Missed Connections poster [of my painting] on the corner where she waits and see what happens. It is kind of an intriguing idea but there's something a bit too manipulative about it for my liking. It's a fine line between being creative and stalking!”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
A creative idea can cross into unethical territory when it involves manipulating personal interactions without consent.
In simple terms: Creative ideas may become invasive.
Respect boundaries in artistic projects.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- public installations
- online dating
- social experiments
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When does a project become exploitation?
- How can artists ensure consent?
The line between art and intrusion is subjective and context‑dependent.