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“...with two lovers there is always one who loves and one who lets himself be loved; it is bitter truth to which most of us have to resign ourselves; but now and then there are two who love and two who let themselves be loved.” quote by Somerset Maugham
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““...with two lovers there is always one who loves and one who lets himself be loved; it is bitter truth to which most of us have to resign ourselves; but now and then there are two who love and two who let themselves be loved.””

Somerset Maugham

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love often involves an imbalance where one partner gives more while the other receives, yet rare relationships achieve mutual giving and receiving.

In simple terms: Love can be one‑sided or balanced.

Key Takeaway

Seek relationships where both give and receive equally.

Themes

love balance relationships human nature

Mood

reflective melancholy hopeful

Type

literary philosophical relationship

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • friendship
  • partner dynamics
  • counseling
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

reciprocity emotional intimacy self‑sacrifice

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you tend to give more than you receive?
  • How can you foster mutual love in your relationships?
A Different Perspective

Mutual love requires effort and vulnerability from both sides, which can be difficult to sustain.

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