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“One would always want to think of oneself as being on the side of love, ready to recognize it and wish it well -but, when confronted with it in others, one so often resented it, questioned its true nature, secretly dismissed the particular instance as folly or promiscuity. Was it merely jealousy…” quote by Shirley Hazzard
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“One would always want to think of oneself as being on the side of love, ready to recognize it and wish it well -but, when confronted with it in others, one so often resented it, questioned its true nature, secretly dismissed the particular instance as folly or promiscuity. Was it merely jealousy, or a reluctance to admit so noble and enviable a sentiment in anyone but oneself?”

Shirley Hazzard

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The passage explores the tension between wanting to love and the resentment or suspicion that arises when love is seen in others, questioning whether jealousy or pride blocks genuine affection.

In simple terms: Desire to love clashes with jealousy and suspicion.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and overcome jealousy.

Themes

love jealousy self‑reflection pride trust

Mood

melancholic introspective

Type

philosophical reflective

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • friendships
  • self‑growth

Key Concepts

human emotion psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • What triggers your jealousy?
  • How can you accept love without suspicion?
A Different Perspective

Love may be idealized, making real love hard to accept.

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