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“The civil servant looks back at the file and says flatly, as if reading, “No children?” and then, looking directly up at Somer, “No babies?” Her cheeks flush with familiar shame in this country where fertility is so celebrated, where every woman has a child on each hip. She shakes her head. After…” quote by Shilpi Somaya Gowda
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““The civil servant looks back at the file and says flatly, as if reading, “No children?” and then, looking directly up at Somer, “No babies?” Her cheeks flush with familiar shame in this country where fertility is so celebrated, where every woman has a child on each hip. She shakes her head. After a couple more exchanges with Krishnan, the civil servant tells them to come back in the morning for an update on their case. K rishnan takes her arm and leads her out of the building. “What was that about?” she says once they are outside. “Nothing,” he says. “Indian bureaucracy. Everything is like this here.” He flags a taxi “What do you mean ‘like this’? What happened back there? They kept us waiting an hour, that guy clearly hadn’t even read our file, and then he barely even talks to me!” “That’s because you’re—” “I’m what?” she snaps at him. “Look, things work differently here. I know how to handle this, just trust me. You can’t come here with your American ideas—” “I didn’t come here with anything.” She slams the taxicab door and feels the whole car reverberate.””

Shilpi Somaya Gowda

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A bureaucratic encounter reveals cultural clashes, power dynamics, and the frustration of navigating foreign systems.

In simple terms: Cultural and bureaucratic friction cause misunderstanding.

Key Takeaway

Adapt and communicate across cultures.

Themes

culture bureaucracy power communication

Mood

cautious empathetic

Type

narrative social commentary

When to use this quote

  • travel
  • immigration
  • government services

Key Concepts

systemic bias cross‑cultural interaction

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you bridge cultural gaps?
  • What biases affect your interactions?
A Different Perspective

Assumptions can hinder empathy.

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