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Okay, so if that's not real, what is? What counts, to…

“Okay, so if that's not real, what is? What counts, to you?" He thought for a second, then said, "I don't know. Just because someone's pretty doesn't mean she's decent. Or vice versa. I'm not into appearances. I like flaws, I think they make things interesting." I wasn't sure what answer I'd…” quote by Sarah Dessen
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“Okay, so if that's not real, what is? What counts, to you?" He thought for a second, then said, "I don't know. Just because someone's pretty doesn't mean she's decent. Or vice versa. I'm not into appearances. I like flaws, I think they make things interesting." I wasn't sure what answer I'd expected. But this wasn't it. For a second, I just sat there, letting it sink in. "You know," I said finally, "saying stuff like that would make girls even crazier for you. Now you're cuteand somewhat more attainable. If you were appealing before, now you're off the charts.”

Sarah Dessen

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker values inner qualities over superficial beauty, appreciating imperfections as they add depth to a person.

In simple terms: Flaws make people interesting, not looks.

Key Takeaway

Seek depth, not surface.

Themes

self‑esteem authenticity relationships

Mood

contemplative introspective

Type

philosophical narrative

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • self‑reflection
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

human nature psychology beauty standards

Questions to Reflect On

  • What qualities truly matter to you?
  • How do you balance appearance and character?
A Different Perspective

Physical attraction can distract from genuine connection.

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