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It occurred to Soo-Ja that if she gave him permission…

“It occurred to Soo-Ja that if she gave him permission, he'd kiss her right then and there. But she realized that all along, what she really wasn't to have him in the present - how could she, married woman that she was, married man that he was — but to rewrite the past, have him go back in time and…” quote by Samuel Park
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““It occurred to Soo-Ja that if she gave him permission, he'd kiss her right then and there. But she realized that all along, what she really wasn't to have him in the present - how could she, married woman that she was, married man that he was — but to rewrite the past, have him go back in time and create a version that allowed them to kiss. To be able to kiss him did not seem to take much — a step forward, the angling of her face. But, in fact, it required rearranging the molecules of every interaction they had ever had, from the very first day they met.””

Samuel Park

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Desire to alter past moments reveals how love intertwines with longing for impossible control.

In simple terms: Love can’t change the past.

Key Takeaway

Accept present reality.

Themes

love time regret fantasy choice

Mood

melancholic hopeful

Type

fictional philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationship counseling
  • creative writing
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

temporal paradox psychology of longing relationship dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What would you change if you could?
  • How does accepting the past empower you?
A Different Perspective

Idealizing past events can hinder present growth.

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