I’m picking you up for lunch because I want to go over…
““I’m picking you up for lunch because I want to go over with you what will happen on the tour.” Do I get a choice? “Shouldn’t that be your assistant’s job to talk to me about that stuff?” I question. “Well if I wanted my assistant to have lunch with you then yeah it would be, but I don’t, so you’re getting me – okay?” “What if I already have plans?” “Do you?” “Yes?” Silence. “With?” Do I detect a hint of jealously there, Jake? “Starbucks. I meet him every day at one for a coffee and blueberry muffin.” I hear him exhale down the line. “Would you consider ditching him for me?” His voice has gone all seductive and flirty again. “I don’t know … it’s a pretty serious thing me and Starbucks have going on.” “I’ll make it worth your while.” “Go on?” “I’m talking cake, Tru, lots and lots of cake…” “Starbucks who?” I giggle””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
A speaker tries to persuade a colleague to prioritize a personal request over existing plans, using flattery and incentives.
In simple terms: Someone tries to convince another to change plans with promises.
Key Takeaway
Consider the motives behind persuasive offers.
Themes
persuasion
relationships
boundaries
Mood
uncertain
tentative
Type
dialogue
interpersonal
When to use this quote
- work meetings
- social outings
- negotiations
- personal requests
Key Concepts
social dynamics
personal agency
conflict resolution
Questions to Reflect On
- What are the true intentions behind the offer?
- How does this affect trust?
A Different Perspective
The speaker may be manipulating emotions rather than addressing genuine needs.