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“Once upon a time there was a mother who, in order to become a mother, had agreed to change her name; who set herself the task of falling in love with her husband bit-by-bit, but who could n ever manage to love one part, the part, curiously enough, which made possible her motherhood; whose feet…” quote by Salman Rushdie
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““Once upon a time there was a mother who, in order to become a mother, had agreed to change her name; who set herself the task of falling in love with her husband bit-by-bit, but who could n ever manage to love one part, the part, curiously enough, which made possible her motherhood; whose feet were hobbled by verrucas and whose shoulders were stooped beneath the accumulating guilts of the world; whose husband's unlovable organ failed to recover from the effects of a freeze; and who, like her husband, finally succumbed to the mysteries of telephones, spending long minutes listening to the words of wrong-number callers . . . shortly after my tenth birthday (when I had recovered from the fever which has recently returned to plague me after an interval of nearly twenty-one years), Amina Sinai resumed her recent practice of leaving suddenly, and always immediately after a wrong number, on urgent shopping trips.””

Salman Rushdie

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A mother’s identity and love are fragmented by societal pressures, personal health, and miscommunication, illustrating the struggle of self-definition.

In simple terms: Mother’s love and identity are broken by external forces.

Key Takeaway

Seek authentic self amidst external expectations.

Themes

identity love societal pressure health communication

Mood

melancholic introspective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • marriage
  • health challenges
  • communication breakdowns

Key Concepts

fragmentation self-discovery gender roles

Questions to Reflect On

  • What parts of your identity feel fragmented?
  • How do external pressures shape your relationships?
A Different Perspective

Complex narrative may obscure core message for some readers.

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