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“If you have to do with one who is unquestionably a slanderer, do not excuse him by calling him frank and free-spoken; do not call one who is notoriously vain, liberal and elegant; do not call dangerous levities mere simplicity; do not screen disobedience under the name of zeal; or arrogance, of…” quote by Saint Francis de Sales
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“If you have to do with one who is unquestionably a slanderer, do not excuse him by calling him frank and free-spoken; do not call one who is notoriously vain, liberal and elegant; do not call dangerous levities mere simplicity; do not screen disobedience under the name of zeal; or arrogance, of frankness; or evil intimacy, of friendship. No, my friends, we must never, in our wish to shun slander, foster or flatter vice in others: but we must call evil evil, and sin sin, and so doing we shall serve God's glory.”

Saint Francis de Sales

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

True moral clarity requires naming wrongdoing directly rather than disguising it with flattering language.

In simple terms: Call bad actions bad, not with nice words.

Key Takeaway

Label wrongdoing plainly.

Themes

morality integrity communication

Mood

serious reflective

Type

ethical didactic

When to use this quote

  • family disputes
  • workplace criticism
  • political debate
  • social media commentary

Key Concepts

theology ethics honesty

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you address harmful behavior without alienating the person?
  • When is diplomatic language appropriate?
A Different Perspective

People may resist direct criticism, fearing conflict.

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