As you grow into a fine young woman, try not to make…
““As you grow into a fine young woman, try not to make excuses. If you know the bottom’s safe - jump. If you know it’s returned - love. If you really want it - fairly take it. If you run, do it ‘til your lungs burn. Laugh until your cheeks ache. And forgive, as you’ll always want to be forgiven. I didn’t say forget, and certainly your spirit won’t allow you to be a doormat, but forgive. Ask yourself always, if they die tonight.. was I really that mad? The answer will almost always be no. So act accordingly.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
The passage urges personal responsibility, resilience, forgiveness, and self‑reflection, urging bold action while maintaining compassion and humility.
In simple terms: Take charge, be brave, forgive, and reflect on your motives.
Act boldly, forgive freely, and question your anger.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- career challenges
- personal relationships
- health goals
- conflict resolution
- self‑improvement
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What excuses are you making?
- How can you balance boldness with self‑care?
Overemphasis on self‑reliance may ignore systemic barriers.