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“If a man does not die of a wound, then it heals in some fashion, and so it is with loss. From the sharp pain of immediate berevement, both the Prince and I passed into the gray days of numb bewilderment and waiting. So grief has always seemed to me, a time of waiting not for the hurt to pass, but…” quote by Robin Hobb
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“If a man does not die of a wound, then it heals in some fashion, and so it is with loss. From the sharp pain of immediate berevement, both the Prince and I passed into the gray days of numb bewilderment and waiting. So grief has always seemed to me, a time of waiting not for the hurt to pass, but to become accustomed to it.”

Robin Hobb

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Grief is a prolonged adjustment period where pain persists, but one learns to live with it.

In simple terms: Grief is a waiting period to become accustomed to loss.

Key Takeaway

Accept grief as a process of adaptation.

Themes

grief loss acceptance

Mood

somber reflective

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • counseling
  • support groups
  • personal loss
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

psychology of mourning human resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does it mean to become accustomed to grief?
  • How can you support someone in the numb days of loss?
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