There are two rules to follow in the presence of a…
““There are two rules to follow in the presence of a laboring woman. The first is: Don’t talk, move, think or breathe when she is in the middle of a surge. In all fairness, Ben does not know I’m having a “real” surge this time. But rule two is that you must know everything going on with the woman without being told.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Guidelines for respecting a laboring woman's intense labor experience: stay silent and stay informed.
In simple terms: Be quiet and aware during a woman's labor.
Support silently and stay informed.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- hospital labor rooms
- home births
- supportive partners
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can partners stay informed without intruding?
- What signs indicate a need for silence?
May be impractical to know everything without communication.