We must not decide how anyone else should or shouldn't be…
““We must not decide how anyone else should or shouldn't be Living. Whenever I'm about to use the word "should" I use the word "could" instead. Should is judgemental, could is empowering. Try it out on yourself with the things that you talk to yourself about... I should do better. or I could do better.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Replace judgmental “should” with empowering “could” to foster self‑compassion and agency.
In simple terms: Swap “should” for “could”.
Key Takeaway
Use “could” to motivate yourself.
Themes
self‑talk
empowerment
mindset
Mood
reflective
motivational
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- goal setting
- habit change
- overcoming self‑criticism
Key Concepts
cognitive reframing
self‑compassion
Questions to Reflect On
- What could you do instead of “should”?
- How does “could” change your motivation?
A Different Perspective
Might feel vague without concrete actions.