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There is no such thing as a soulmate…and who would want…

“There is no such thing as a soulmate…and who would want there to be? I don’t want half of a shared soul. I want my own damn soul.” Ely in Naomi and Ely’s No Kiss List Rachel Cohn and David Levithan” quote by Rachel Cohn
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““There is no such thing as a soulmate…and who would want there to be? I don’t want half of a shared soul. I want my own damn soul.” Ely in Naomi and Ely’s No Kiss List Rachel Cohn and David Levithan””

Rachel Cohn

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

True intimacy comes from owning one’s own soul, not merging into a half‑shared identity.

In simple terms: Own your soul, not half a soul.

Key Takeaway

Seek personal wholeness.

Themes

individuality love self‑ownership

Mood

thoughtful defiant

Type

literary conversational

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • friendship
  • self‑discovery

Key Concepts

soul mates personal boundaries

Questions to Reflect On

  • What parts of yourself do you keep hidden?
  • How can you love without losing self?
A Different Perspective

Romantic idealism can overlook mutual growth.

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