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The flatterer's object is to please in everything he does…

“The flatterer's object is to please in everything he does; whereas the true friend always does what is right, and so often gives pleasure, often pain, not wishing the latter, but not shunning it either, if he deems it best.” quote by Plutarch
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“The flatterer's object is to please in everything he does; whereas the true friend always does what is right, and so often gives pleasure, often pain, not wishing the latter, but not shunning it either, if he deems it best.”

Plutarch

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Flattery seeks approval, while true friendship chooses righteousness, even if it brings discomfort.

In simple terms: True friends prioritize right over comfort.

Key Takeaway

Choose integrity over flattery.

Themes

friendship integrity honesty

Mood

thoughtful serious

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • leadership
  • parenting
  • mentoring
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

Moral philosophy social dynamics virtue ethics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does it mean to be a true friend?
  • When have you chosen right over easy?
A Different Perspective

Choosing truth may cause pain to others.

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