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“Tonglen is a way for you to be with people who need you - beginning with yourself.” quote by Pema Chodron
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“Tonglen is a way for you to be with people who need you - beginning with yourself.”

Pema Chodron

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Compassion begins with caring for yourself, then extends to others in need.

In simple terms: Self‑care precedes caring for others.

Key Takeaway

Start with inner compassion.

Themes

compassion self‑care interdependence

Mood

gentle encouraging

Type

spiritual advice

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • volunteering
  • relationships

Key Concepts

mindfulness empathy

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you nurture yourself today?
  • Who needs your support now?
A Different Perspective

Self‑neglect limits ability to help.

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