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“There was once a lady who was arrogant and proud. Determined to attain enlightenment, she asked all the authorities how to go about it. She was told, "Well, if you climb to the top of this very high mountain, you'll find a cave there. Sitting inside that cave is a wise old woman. She will tell…” quote by Pema Chödrön
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““There was once a lady who was arrogant and proud. Determined to attain enlightenment, she asked all the authorities how to go about it. She was told, "Well, if you climb to the top of this very high mountain, you'll find a cave there. Sitting inside that cave is a wise old woman. She will tell you." Having endured great hardships, the lady finally found this cave. Sure enough, sitting there was a gentle spiritual-looking old woman in white clothing, who smiled beatifically. Overcome with awe and respect, the lady prostrated at the feet of this woman and said, "I want to attain enlightenment. Show me how." This wise woman looked at her and asked sweetly, "Are you sure you want to attain enlightenment?" And the woman said, "Of course I'm sure." Whereupon the smiling woman turned into a demon, stood up brandishing a great big stick, and started chasing her, saying, "Now! Now! Now!" For the rest of her life, that lady could never get away from the demon who was always saying, Now! Now--that's the key. Mindfulness trains us to be awake and alive, fully curious, about now.””

Pema Chödrön

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The story illustrates that enlightenment requires present‑moment awareness; the “Now” demon symbolizes distraction and the need for mindfulness.

In simple terms: Mindfulness means staying in the present.

Key Takeaway

Practice present‑moment awareness.

Themes

mindfulness enlightenment awareness

Mood

calm focused

Type

inspirational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • meditation
  • stress management
  • learning
  • spiritual growth

Key Concepts

impermanence attachment spiritual practice

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you remind yourself to stay present?
  • What distractions pull you away from “Now”?
A Different Perspective

Mindfulness can be challenging to maintain constantly.

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